What Do Women Find Attractive?

July 15th, 2008 Posted in Relationships

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by Pam Baldwin

Do you ever wonder this ?” what are women really looking for in a man? I don’t believe men ask themselves this question enough. And while women continue to dig for ways to improve their flaws so they can find or keep a man, it seems all the hard work is being done by women, while the guys just go on with what they’re doing and forget to consider the needs and wants of the ladies.

There are an infinite variety of women out there. Each has her own idea of who the perfect man for her would be. Women are similar to men in that they all look for and appreciate different things. There are, however, common personalities and character traits that run the gamut.

Good looks are usually nice, but not the most important thing. After all, how many times have you seen a gorgeous woman with an average looking guy? Didn’t you always wonder why? It’s because those men more than make up for their less than perfect physical attributes with a winning combination of confidence, charm, and personality. They are able to give women what they truly want.

Along those same lines, if a man has respect for himself, he will also treat his lady with respect, which is of utmost importance to most women. That certain charm will always win her over quicker than crude pickup lines and tacky jokes. Confidence will also lead a man to true happiness, which will help him make and keep his woman happy as well.

It is important to try hard but to avoid overdoing it. Listening to a woman and asking her questions will keep her interested as women love to talk and discuss everything that comes to their minds. A man who doesn’t listen and isn’t interested in what a woman has to say, is not a desirable man. By simply listening to what a woman is saying, a man can quickly find out what her wants and needs are. So the next time you are speaking to a woman, keep this question in mind “what are women really looking for in a man?” and concentrate on finding the answer in what she is saying.

One way to find out what woman really want from a man is through online dating. There are many websites dedicated to this task, and many of them do not cost any money. An advantage to meeting someone this way is that in order to sign up, a questionnaire must be completed, which provides a list of likes and dislikes that you can compare yourself to. If, however, this way of meeting someone makes you uncomfortable, you’ll just have to do things the old-fashioned way and find out this kind of information for yourself.

A good man will constantly show affection to his woman. If she has to ask if you still care, there is something you are not doing well. This is when arguments tend to escalate. It’s not because women just like to argue. It’s more likely that the cause stems from her having to wonder how you feel. You can keep arguments to a minimum by managing your emotions and behaving more consistently.

Try and compare women to flowers - delicate and in need of nurturing. Take care of a woman, and she will bloom into someone even more beautiful. Neglect will cause a flower or a woman to wilt, so show your appreciation daily. Small gestures go a long way, and a compliment at just the right time will always make her smile. Remember, if your woman is always smiling, you can be sure you are what she truly wants.

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