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Mistakes happen all the time. Some we did on purpose, others weren’t. Some of these, like locking the keys inside the car, barely make a dent to our lives. A mistake that drives away your girlfriend is life altering.

If you want her back, mourning over your loss will not help. Instead, you need to be taking action, the right action, starting now to get your ex back. This calls for the right pacing and finesse to pull off. The following tips will touch on this.

1.) Expecting the dispute to fix itself is wishful thinking. This kind of passivity will certainly allow the angry feelings to cool off, but nothing will ever happen if you don’t act. Your relationship is worth working for. In order to get your girl back, you’ll have to put in the effort and then put in more.

2.) Moving too fast or pressing too hard will only make things worse. Don’t try to attack this head on as if it were a battle. Instead you’ll need to take a more deliberate and measured approach which will take some time.

Care is required to bring her back gradually. A wound will not heal overnight. The same can be said of repairing a wounded relationship. Adding more stress to a stressful situation will not help.

3.) So how much pressure must you apply to get her back? Answer: none. You aren’t trying to force her to come back, instead you need to draw her back. It’s all about enticement.

Take responsibility for and correct your part of the blame for the separation. You will want to present yourself to her as a better man. You’ll have to demonstrate to her a level of maturity that you never thought you had.

4.) It is important to know when to stop. If your ex has decidedly moved on with her life after a lot of time has passed and she continually turns down your efforts at reconciliation, you should take this as a very strong hint. Here’s another hint: she’s remarried. If you continue to persist you’ll find yourself in jail. If this doesn’t make sense to you, then you seriously need professional help.

What you do immediately after a breakup with your girl will determine how to hard getting back with her will be. Time it wrong or bring up the wrong subject with her and you’ll have made it very difficult if not impossible to bring her back. Use your head and make an effort to plan out what you’ll do.