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Make a note of anything that you find which may be at all incriminating. You will not be able to remember everything you find, as you are under more than a stress already. Keeping large amounts of information in your mind is a difficult task at the best of times.

Keep track of all dates, times, unknown phone numbers and suspicious activities. Does he go to the gym but have a dry towel when he comes home, or a wet towel that doesn’t smell? You will be much more able to track patterns in his behavior if you have all the information written down.

Pay close attention to all the things you husband says and does. You may not be sure if your husband has actually changed his behaviour from one day to the next as you have so much on your mind, however if you have it all written down you’ll be completely confident that some crucial behaviour of his has changed. Or more importantly that he has created a new one.

It is entirely up to you to set boundaries on how far you want to look into your husband’s private life. Many women believe that certain boundaries should not be crossed, but you need to decide what you feel comfortable doing. If your husband is cheating on you, you need to remember that the end will justify the means.

One very important thing to keep an eye on is your phone bill, if you start noticing numbers that you do not recognize you should be very wary of what your partner is up to. All too often the simple mistake of calling their new girlfriend/boyfriend is what catches them out in the end.

When you are looking for evidence, and more importantly when you have found it, make careful notes of everything. Make sure that you don’t leave any evidence of your investigation behind you, this means you should make copies of any and all paperwork or e-mails, leave the originals where you found them. You do not want to make your husband suspicious until you are sure you have the evidence to confront him.

When you feel you have accumulated enough evidence and are ready to confront him, plan it properly! Have your questions and accusations ready, if necessary make notes so that you will not lose track. It is very important that you have a watertight case at this stage, do not confront him until you are confident in your investigations. This will be a very emotional time and he will lie to the bitter end. You need to be strong and you need to be prepared.

Your intuition is a very powerful tool, remember to always follow it and it will lead you to the truth.