4 Signs of Infidelity

June 8th, 2008 Posted in Relationships

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by Pauline Stradlen

It is a fact that almost 70% of people will cheat on their partner at some point during the realtionship. They are not always caught and often the injured party is none the wiser and continues with the relationship blissfully unaware. However, there are several signs that you should watch out for that may point to your partners infidelity.

Below are four signs that you should watch out for, you need to always be vigilant, and keep a close eye on your partner. These are just a small number of signs that you need to know about, I’ll be writing about more in future articles.

1) Getting in shape. After a realtively lengthy relationship where both you and your partner are comfortable, and you have known each other for quite a while, your partner suddenly decides (for no real reason) to get into shape. They decide to join a gym or start running at nights after work. However, you are not invited to join!

2) Sexual Activity. Has there been a change in your and your partner’s sexual activity? This could be an increase or decrease in frequency, or changes in your normal positions. These behaviours may indicate your partner’s infidelity.

3)Secrecy. It is quite normal for everyone to have little secrets, even in a long term relationship. However, excessive secrets is another thing. Keep an eye on your partner with regards to their mobile phone, do they recieve phone calls at odd hours of the day? Do they answer their phone and then walk away out of earshot? Keep it with them all the time - even to the bathroom? It is always a good idea to check their mobile phone records, if there is a number that you do not recognise you can use an online company to check its owner (have a look at my authors bio). If they do not want to show you their records you can immediatley begin to suspect somethign is up.

4) Details. When you are retelling a story to a group of friends at a party, or even to your partner over dinner, you often leave out little details that are unimportant to the story, or that you have just plain forgotten. If however, you are lying about something, you feel the need to embelish a little or a lot. If you have asked your partner a fairly simple question such as what did they do for lunch that day, and you get a response that is extremely indepth and full of tiny details it is often a good indication that they are lying.

Whether your partner is cheating on you are not, you need to find out for sure. If you do not find out your suspicions will eat you up and ultimately destroy the relationship. For a relationship to be strong you need to trust your partner.

Nomenclature suspicions are, there is a chance that your partner is not cheating on you, and you are stressing yourself unnecessarily. While you are looking for evidence of your partner’s infidelity, also look at the small things they do which shows they love you.

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