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I have been doing a ton of research lately into the best expert advice available for getting your ex back. And one thing I have realized is that when it comes to advice, one size doesn’t always fit everyone.

And there is a lot of great advice out there, but also a lot of just plain awful advice too.

So how do you know if you’ve found the right advice and strategy to follow or if you’re just allowing yourself to get more confused and make more mistakes when trying to get your ex back?

The following three tips will help you to decide if the advice you are thinking of following is actually the best for you or not.

1. Is it gender specific advice? Men and women are different - think Venus and Mars of course. So when reading advice not tailored specifically for your sex you have to evaluate whether it’s just good, practical advice that applies to both sexes or whether it’s something that might be more fitting for a man or a woman. The best advice is written with the psychology of how men and women act and react in a relationship, knowing what men and women really want and understanding that it’s different, not the same. There are some universal wants that specifically apply to everyone in a relationship including having certain needs met. But those needs are different for men and women and the best advice takes this into consideration.

2. Are you drawn to bigger, more abstract ideas and thoughts or are you more in tune with logical step by step advice? If you want to get your ex back it’s important to have the right plan for you and to stick to it. But a plan can be very logical and detailed with practical steps or have a more esoteric approach such as using law of attraction principles or positive thinking. If you’re not sure which type of thinking appeals to you more take a look at how you approach other areas of your life. Do you feel better having clear and implicit instructions on how to do things etc., with lots of guidance and direction, or are you more willing to jump into the unknown and work with approaches that are based on trust and willingness to work on faith and the application of reality creating principles?

3. Do you want to focus on just getting your ex back, or are you more open to advice that will help you find happiness whether or not you get back together with your lover? So much of the time when we are hurting emotionally we think that if we just fix the problem that caused the pain we will be happy again. But sometimes we aren’t thinking clearly enough and are unwilling to face our worst fears. Really good advice will help you with a strategy to follow to get your ex back if that really is the right thing for you, but it will also help you to face your deepest fears and heal emotionally. It will also help you to grow stronger, and become a person who can move on if it’s not the right relationship for you and put you in a position to attract something even better.

You really do deserve to have the relationship of your dreams and if you feel in your heart that your ex is the one you want to have that relationship with then it’s time to get yourself in motion and choose the right advice and strategy for you.

I hope these 3 tips will help you look at all the advice, tips and strategies you read about or are considering trying with a much more informed mindset. Having the right plan for you will help you feel much more comfortable in your approach to getting your ex back.

And being confident that you are following the best advice for you will make you feel much stronger and more sure of yourself. And it goes without saying that this will certainly increase your confidence and attraction and put lots of positive momentum in your favor.